How to Lose Weight Without Giving Up Your Favorite Foods

Have you heard dozens of methods for how to lose weight?

And do they seem to contradict each other?

You hear stories of someone losing more than a hundred pounds. Instead of motivating you, these stories paralyze you. You doubt their safety and lasting power.

You’re afraid to make drastic changes like giving up your favorite foods.

The truth is that most weight loss methods are unhealthy and don’t last.

What if the easiest and safest way to lose weight was also enjoyable?

You don’t need to count carbs, buy expensive pills, or spend hours in the gym. You need proven strategies that promote healthy weight loss that lasts a lifetime.

In this post, I’ll show you four simple steps to lose weight and explain why they work. Plus, I’ll share the secret ingredient essential for your success.

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Four Steps to Losing Weight Without Starving Yourself

Follow these four simple steps for healthy weight loss that lasts an enjoyable lifetime.


Step #1 Stop Eating These Fat Magnet Foods

Why give up your favorite foods if you don’t have to? In this section, you’ll learn the worst foods for your weight and health. But don’t think about giving up these foods, think about giving up the pain that they cause for you.

Choose just one, for now, to take a vacation from for a week. The taste of these foods lasts only a few seconds, but the problems they cause last a lifetime.


1. The Absolute Worst Food For Weight Loss

It doesn’t matter if it’s low fat, low calorie, organic, or even vegan. If it’s processed, don’t eat it.

Processed food is any food that’s been altered from its original form. It’s not food, it’s a product designed to addict you for a profit. These foods have minimal nutrients and high amounts of preservatives, oils, salts, and sugars.

The worst food for your health and weight is processed meat. Processed meat includes bacon, corned beef, jerky, ham, sausage, salami, canned meat, and meat-based sauces.

But does eating meat cause weight gain?

Even grass-fed and organic meat, milk, butter, and cheese have saturated fat, harmful proteins, and zero fiber.

For Example:
One of the largest studies on nutrition found that those who eat meat gained significantly more weight than those who ate less. (1) Amazingly, they could predict waistline growth based on daily meat consumption.

The second worst food is processed plant foods. These include packaged bread, oils, veggie burgers, cookies, fruit juice, soda, and chips.

Processed plants either lack key nutrients or have added ingredients. By the time these foods get to you, their nutrients are degraded and the food is dead.


2. This Food Is Designed to Make You Fat

Milk is designed for infants who are constantly growing. What happens when a person consumes milk throughout their whole life?

Drinking milk beyond development can cause weight gain, promote cancer development, and speed up the aging process.

Further, milk is unique to each species. Cow’s milk is designed for an infant cow that grows up to 40 times faster than a human infant.

“The purpose of cow’s milk is to turn a 65-pound calf into a 700-pound cow as rapidly as possible. Cow’s milk IS baby calf growth fluid.”

-Michael Klaper, M.D.

It gets worse.

Animals are given hormones and antibiotics to fatten them faster. Not only are you what you eat, but you are what you eat, eats.


3. This Popular Liquid Refreshment Makes You Store Fat

Alcohol causes weight gain in several different ways:

  • It’s only empty calories. Your body stores excess calories primarily as abdominal fat, also known as a “beer gut”.
  • It’s stored as fuel. Your body uses alcohol as a fuel source first. Unfortunately, excess glucose and lipids are stored as fat.
  • It messes with your hormones. Alcohol affects testosterone (2), which supports muscle growth and may help burn fat. Men with low testosterone levels tend to gain more weight than men with normal levels (3).
  • It affects your sleep. Alcohol affects sleep and daytime sleepiness (4) and poor sleep causes weight gain.
  • It messes with your digestion. Alcohol weakens intestinal muscle movement, reduces nutrient absorption, and prevents toxin elimination (5).

That’s it for step #1, the hardest step. Do you want a list of all you-can-eat foods?

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Step #2: Eat More of These Fat Burning Foods

These foods not only help you lose weight, but they will also help you feel full. The good news is there are many different foods to choose from. For the best results eat a wide variety of these foods.


1. High Water Content Foods

Water helps trigger stretch receptors in your stomach that signal your brain that you’re full.

One study found that drinking water a half hour before eating increased weight loss by 44% over 12 weeks (6). But they found no benefit of drinking water with a meal.

Fruits and vegetables have the highest water content, they’re between 80% and 90% water. The foods with the highest water (from Healthline), content include:

  • Lettuce: 96%
  • Cucumber: 95%
  • Celery: 95%
  • Tomato: 94%
  • Zucchini: 94%
  • Bell pepper: 92%
  • Watermelon: 92%
  • Strawberries: 91%
  • Cantaloupe: 90%
  • Peaches: 89%
  • Oranges: 88%

The foods with the lowest water content are meat and dried foods.

For the best results, make at least 70% of your diet foods with high water content.

Learn More: I wrote an article to help you drink the right amount of water for your weight and lifestyle, check out How Much Water Should I Drink A Day?


2. Fiber-Rich Foods

Fiber helps you feel full faster.

The good bacteria in your gut break down fiber into the compound propionate (7). Propionate helps slow down the rate of food that empties from your stomach making you feel full faster. Also, your stretch receptors stay active so you feel full longer.

The fiber in beans has a unique superpower called the “second meal effect.” (8). Eating beans helps you feel full even the next day.

Foods rich in fiber are fruits, vegetables, legumes, and nuts.
Foods with the least amount of fiber include:

  • Processed food: the fiber is dead and can’t feed your good bacteria.
  • Juice: the fiber is removed
  • Meat: zero fiber


3. Low Energy Density Foods

Energy density is the number of calories per unit weight (9). Low energy density foods have a high proportion of nutrients per calorie.

If you eat foods with fewer calories per ounce you can reduce calories without eating less food. Why? Because you tend to eat the same volume of food (10). 

Water has the lowest energy density as it has volume but no calories. Dietary fiber is the second best, contributing volume but almost no calories.

Because of their water and fiber content, the lowest energy density foods are fruits and vegetables.


What are the highest energy density foods that cause weight gain?

The highest energy density foods are foods high in fat like bacon (11) or sugar. Dried foods generally have a high energy density.

The low energy density rule has two exceptions.

First, because soda is heavy, it has a relatively low energy density. Its low energy density makes it appear less harmful than it is.

Secondly, Seeds and nuts have a high amount of beneficial fat. Their high energy density makes them appear less healthy than they are.

Related: Learn about the foods and tips that give you energy in How To Have More Energy | The Ultimate Guide


4. This Amazing Fat-Burning Seed

Chia seeds are rich in fiber, protein, minerals, omega-3 fatty acids, and antioxidants. But they also have a unique fat-burning power: chia seeds expand in water.

In one study, researchers gave 77 overweight participants two tablespoons of ground chia a day for six months (12). The chia group lost significantly more weight and belly fat than the control group eating the same amount of fiber.

Chia seeds need to be ground to unlock their fat-burning power.


5. The Best Fat-Burning Drink

Apple cider vinegar is a relatively inexpensive way to lose weight with or without giving up your favorite foods.

Apple cider vinegar helps you lose weight in three ways:

  1. Apple cider vinegar has only three calories per tablespoon (13).
  2. It activates an enzyme called AMPK which acts as your body’s fuel gauge. If it senses you are low in fuel, it will increase energy production. It also signals your body to stop storing fat and start burning fat.
  3. It’s rich in polyphenols that support the right gut flora for weight loss.

In a study, overweight individuals who took two tablespoons of apple cider vinegar a day for 12 weeks lost about five pounds (14). They also lost harmful abdominal fat and lost about an inch off their waist size.


6. The Right Probiotics

Overweight people have an imbalance in the gut flora that signals gene expression for weight gain (15).

Both dairy and non-dairy probiotics cause weight gain by promoting Lactobacillus species in the gut. Conversely, eating foods rich in polyphenols from fruit, green tea, or vinegar can promote weight loss.


7. These High-Fat Foods

Although nuts are rich in calories, the majority of studies show that nuts don’t cause weight gain. In some cases, eating nuts daily helped people lose weight. Why don’t the calories in nuts cause weight gain?

The calories in nuts are generally accounted for in the following ways:

  • 70% is compensated by eating fewer calories
  • 20% is lost from increased fat burning
  • 10% is flushed away

For the best results, avoid added oil, sugar, or salt.


8. Foods From These Proven Diets

Vegan, vegetarian, and reduced-fat diets are proven to work long-term (16).

Low-calorie and reduced carbohydrate diets promote weight loss in the short term. But these diets have less adherence and effectiveness beyond a year.

Vegan and vegetarian diets are more sustainable as they provide more fiber, vitamins, minerals, and enough protein (17). They are also low in saturated fat and cholesterol.

Learn More: I wrote a detailed article on the ten best vegan protein sources for weight loss.

Now that you know what to eat, do you want to learn how to put weight loss on autopilot?

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Step #3: Make Weight Loss Automatic

Did you know that you only control about 5% of your actions? The other 95% are habits.

So weight loss is 20 times easier than you thought.

Focus on one healthy change at a time. A habit can be changed in 21 days, but you only need to win one moment at a time.

Here are simple strategies to make healthy habits easier.


1. Make Anything Taste Amazing

You don’t have to give up flavor to eat healthily.

Your body is designed to adapt to its environment. As you eat more healthy foods, your taste buds adapt to make you want the foods in your environment.

Even your gut flora will change and make you hungry for more healthy foods.
How can you make healthy food taste sweet instantly?

You can make sour or tart foods taste sweet by chewing on the Ledidi berry. Chew the dried berry for 30 seconds near the tip of your tongue. Then you have about 20 minutes to make even the greenest smoothie taste amazing.


2. Don’t Give Up Your Favorite Foods

People in the Blue Zones save meat or alcohol for special occasions. Blue Zones are regions of the world where people live longer than average. Obesity is rare in these regions and people are healthy and active beyond the average lifespan.

The secret to health and longevity is not your location, it’s your lifestyle.

Why not create your own Blue Zone? Eat healthy foods on most days and savor special occasions.


3. How To Increase Your Willpower By 2,100%

Will power is like a battery, the more you use it, the less you have for making decisions. You can recharge your willpower with quality sleep and relaxation.

Resisting junk food drains your willpower, making it harder to resist the next temptation. But you only need to use your willpower about once a week, not every meal.

If you have unhealthy food in the house you need to resist it three times a day or more. You can boost your willpower by a factor of 21 (3 meals times 7 days), by not buying the food that tempts you in the first place.


4. Sleep At the Best Time For Weight Loss

Your body cleanses itself and releases healing hormones around 10 PM. But you need to be asleep to get the full benefit.

Lack of sleep or poor sleep quality can disrupt the hormones related to hunger, satiety, and fat storage (18). So getting quality sleep makes weight loss automatic.

What you eat also matters. For example, one study found that vegetarians burn more calories in their sleep (19).

Further Reading: I Wrote a detailed article on the 35 things that keep you awake at night.


5. Learn a Lesson From A Turtle

The tortoise lives longer than humans. They don’t get fat otherwise, they wouldn’t fit in their shell. What is their secret?

Turtles are calm and persistent. Because they are relaxed, they have little stress and a slow heart rate.

One study found that storing belly fat is one of your body’s natural adaptations to stress (20). Examples of stress are poor sleep, being overworked, poor nutrition, and anxiety.

Take small steps to lose weight. It’s better to plan a weight loss program that’s sustainable for you than to rush into the wrong one.

Eat slowly and savor every bite. There’s a delay between eating and feeling full. When you eat slowly, you’ll feel full before you eat more than you need.

“Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.”

∼Lao Tzu


6. Forgive Yourself

Only you have lived your story, no one else could’ve survived what you have. And you needed everything you’ve been through.

You can’t move forward in life until you appreciate who you are. Then you’ll want to improve and take care of yourself. Your subconscious mind will guide you toward your goals.

Most people wait for circumstances to improve before making a change. But you’re smart, you’ve chosen to make the change first.

Now you know what to do, why not keep reading to learn the weight loss myths to avoid.


Step #4: Avoid These Weight Loss Myths and Scams

Are these myths keeping you from reaching your goal or even starting?


Myth #1: You Need to Count Carbs or Calories

Carbohydrates, like fat and protein, are vital macronutrients.

People in the Blue Zones eat mostly carbohydrates, but you won’t find many overweight people in these regions. Like the people in the Blue Zones, your carbs should come from whole plant foods.

Counting carbs is great for reducing bread, sugar, pasta, and other processed foods. Carb counting fails when you avoid fruits, vegetables, and legumes.

Similarly, not all calories are equal. If you’re eating mostly a whole food plant-based diet you can eat as many calories as you want. The fiber and nutrients in these foods will make you feel full before you eat too many calories.

Is carb or calorie counting keeping you from getting enough vitamins, minerals, antioxidants, fiber, and phytonutrients?


Myth #2: You Need to Go Keto, Paleo, Or Vegan

Some people in the Blue Zones eat meat and dairy, while others don’t eat any animal products.
What’s their secret?

They eat mostly fruits, vegetables, and legumes. Animal products are a small portion. And, until recently, they didn’t eat processed food.

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Myth #3: Diet and Exercise Are Equally Important For Weight Loss

Most people trying to lose weight believe that diet and exercise are equally important for weight loss. But what you eat influences weight gain far more than energy expenditure (21).

You can’t outrun a bad diet. Exercise burns calories, but it can’t burn off harmful hormones, chemicals, and bad fats.

Exercise makes you need more nutrients. You need to eat even more healthy food and less unhealthy food when you exercise.

Focus on a simple exercise you can do every day. Walking every day is one of the simplest and most effective ways to lose weight. Walking burns calories, strengthens muscles, and reduces belly fat.

Learn About the health benefits of walking every day for weight loss. 


Myth #4: You Should Focus On Losing Weight

The waist-to-height ratio is the best measure of fat loss. Your goal should be to “keep your waist circumference to less than half your height.” (22)

Not all weight loss is equal. Where the weight is lost matters most. The most harmful fat is the visceral or abdominal fat around your internal organs.

Because muscle weighs more than fat, the scale won’t give you the whole picture.

Body mass index (BMI) is better than weight as it takes height into account. But it doesn’t tell you where your extra weight is.

Use a cloth measuring tape, and measure halfway between the top of your hip bones and the bottom of your rib cage.

How to measure your waist-to-height ratio:

  • Stand up straight
  • Breathe deeply then exhale
  • Measure your waist


Myth #5: Diet Pills Help You Lose Weight

A review of common weight loss supplements found that none of them worked better than the placebo (23).

Don’t waste money on pills. The best foods for healthy weight loss are inexpensive. But not eating unhealthy foods is free.


Myth #6: Coconut Oil Burns Belly Fat

No studies have shown that coconut oil helps burn belly fat better than a placebo. In fact, one study found that eating coconut oil increased insulin resistance which eventually causes type 2 diabetes (24).

Coconut oil is processed. Instead, eat coconut with the fiber intact.

Now you have four simple, but challenging steps. Do you want to know the secret to overcoming any obstacle?


The One Thing Every Weight Loss Story Has In Common

Every weight loss story, or success story, has a powerful “why.”

 “He Who Has a Why to Live For Can Bear Almost Any How.”

∼Friedrich Nietzsche

Anyone can learn the “how,” but if your “why” is strong enough, you’ll get through anything.

Wanting to lose weight is not enough. You need to imagine what having a healthy weight can do for you. Think of the confidence and energy you will build to chase your dreams.

You’ll have to make sacrifices. But you’re only giving up what is causing you pain and sabotaging your dreams.


Start Your Weight Loss Adventure Now

This morning you were lost in a sea of weight loss advice. Each tip was like an anchor keeping you from moving forward.

Today you’ve learned what advice you can cut loose and what to hold on to.

Without the distractions of diet fads, your goal is closer than you thought.

If you continue to follow these four simple steps, you’ll keep the weight off for good.

Start now, before you lose focus. Pick one small change to make today or you’ll forget everything by tomorrow.
Not only will you reach your goal, but you’ll also enjoy every minute of the journey.


Further Reading:

17 Secret Weight Loss Foods That Taste Good

What Is A Good Resting Heart Rate For My Age?



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